Created for Connection

Fight Less - Love More !

“A Hold Me Tight”® Christian Couples’ Workshop

Hold Me Tight® is a Registered Trademark of Dr. Susan Johnson

Move toward a deeper emotional connection with your partner!

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Recognize the causes of disconnection and learn to repair, heal, and reconnect.

 

Become more emotionally attached and closer

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  • Revive that “in love” feeling

  • Understand the negative cycles that keep you apart

  • Repair wounds and forgive injuries

“Created for Connection” couples’ workshops are “Hold Me Tight” workshops for Christian couples based on EFT, Dr. Sue Johnson’s Emotionally Focused Therapy, and the book she authored with Kenny Sanderfer entitled “Created for Connection”.

These experiential learning workshops are presented in a Friday afternoon - Saturday format. The workshops provide a context for couples to work together on designed structured exercises.

This program will help you ignite your romantic fire by experiencing new ways of connecting  by applying the research-proven concepts of EFT - Emotionally Focused Therapy.

"Created for Connection" is based on EFT, the most successful couple therapy model developed by Dr. Sue Johnson.  Numerous solid research studies substantiate EFT's effectiveness.  These studies find that “70-75% of couples move from distress to recovery and approximately 90% show significant improvements.” (EFT info)

 

God created us with a need for connection with Him and with each other.

“Key moments of bonding, when one person reaches for the other and the other responds, take courage, but they are magical and transformational”.

“Divorce is mainly about loss of emotional responsiveness”.

--Dr. Sue Johnson

Here is Dr. Sue Johnson, originator of EFT - Emotionally Focused Therapy speaking about “Created for Connection”.

Hold Me Tight® is a registered trademark of Sue Johnson. All Rights Reserved.

Pastor Reviews of C4C:

Many Pastors have attended C4C with their spouses and all have rated the workshop very highly

Gerrit Dawson, Senior Pastor - First Presbyterian Church

Gerrit had this to say after he and his wife, Rhonda, attended Created for Connection.

Kevin McKee, Senior Pastor -
The Chapel on the Campus 

Kevin attended a C4C workshop with his wife, Mary, and strongly encouraged church members and staff to attend as well.

Andrew Bates, Lead Pastor 
First Baptist Church, Eunice, LA

Andrew attended C4C with his wife, Emily, and had this to say about their Created for Connection experience.

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At the end of each C4C workshop, we ask participants to share in one or two words to summarize their weekend experience. These are a sample of common responses.

Created for Connection

2024 Workshops

Registration is open for all 2024 workshops - register before they are sold out

February 23-24, 2024 Fellowship Church Zachary

April 19-20, 2024 Christ Covenant Church

August 23-24, 2024 Healing Place Church

Sept 13-14, 2024 The Chapel on the Campus

Schedule:

Friday 12:30 - 5 PM (registration is 12-12:30)

Saturday 8:30 AM - 5 PM

Make it a weekend get away!

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Cost

$500 per couple

$400 early bird

(if paid 2 weeks before the workshop)

50% DISCOUNT FOR MEMBERS OF ANY OF THE HOST CHURCHES

You can attend ANY of the 2024 C4C workshops for 50% off if you are a member at ANY of the 4 churches hosting C4C. Just use the “coupon” code listed on the registration form

There are full or partial scholarships for Pastors and for those in ministry.

There is no conflict of interest or commercial support for this program.

Contact us for further information.

About Your Facilitators

Dee Adams, PhD, LPC, LMFT and Certified in Emotionally Focused Therapy

Dr. Adams has been in private practice since 1987 specializing in couple counseling. Dee has 3 degrees in marriage and family studies from Ohio State, Michigan State, and Florida State and did post doctorate study in counseling at LSU.  As an Assistant Professor she taught marriage and family classes at LSU and later at Louisiana Tech. Dee has done over 27,000 hours of counseling with over 2,600 clients (a couple is equivalent to one client).  From 1991-2021 she served for exactly thirty years as the founding Director of Baton Rouge Christian Counseling Center (BRCCC), a ministry of First Presbyterian Church.

The study of EFT started for Dee in 2009 with Dr. Sue Johnson and in 2011 she became the first certified Emotionally Focused Therapist in Louisiana.  Along with her husband, Pete, they have participated in 3 and taught 1 different Hold Me Tight or “Created for Connection” weekend workshops, impacting more than 410 couples.

Raised Presbyterian in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, Dee became a Christian through Young Life in 1968.  She and her husband of 43 years, Pete Adams, have been members of the Chapel on the Campus since 1980.   Dee is child-free by choice.

If interested in Dee’s counseling practice, see counseling with Dr. Adams for more information.

Pete Adams, Attorney at Law and Certified Coach

Pete retired in 2019 after serving as the Executive Director of the Louisiana District Attorney’s for 44 years.  He graduated from USL in Lafayette and LSU Law School.  Pete and Dee were trained as PAIRS leaders (Practical Application of Intimate Relationship Skills) and taught PAIRS together 4 times.  PAIRS was a 16-week skills-based course for couples that included 3 hours of education per week plus 4 full weekends of instruction. 

Pete completed a 4-day Externship in EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) with Dr. Sue Johnson in 2009 in San Diego and has participated in 3 Hold Me Tight/Created for Connections workshops and been a teacher / facilitator at 18 C4C workshops.   He has been a consultant and speaker for non-profit organizations across the nation, has a private law practice, and is a Certified Relationship Coach.  “Papa Pete” has 2 adult children, 12 grandchildren, and 6 great grandchildren. The Chapel on the Campus has been Pete and Dee’s church for 42 years. They still sit in the same section where Pete prayed to receive Christ on November 30, 1980.

CONTINUING EDUCATION HOURS

As of Feb 16, 2024 — CEU’s are longer provided for C4C

But a “Certificate of Completion” is available

All four 2024 “Created for Connection” couples workshops were approved by R.Cassidy Seminars for 10 CEU hours, but on Feb 16, 2024 Robert Cassidy, CEO wrote announcing:

  • It is with regret to inform you we will no longer be providing CE credits.

  • We'd like to offer services to those who wish to receive an alternative means of getting credits by offering a "Certificate of Completion".   The feedback we have received from clients is that although we don't have the CE language we once had, attendees have in many cases been able to submit their certificate from us to their state licensing board for credit as proof that they have attended a course with a designated number of hours of attendance.   

Contact Us:

C4C WEBSITE: www.C4CBR.com

BEST EMAILS FOR GENERAL INQUIRIES:

Dee Adams Dee@brchristiancounseling.com

Pete Adams Pete@epeteadams.com

BRCCC office (225) 387-2287